If you’ve already ditched your resolution this year, don’t beat yourself up—the “all-or-nothing” nature of resolutions is impractical and unsustainable. (After all, 365 consecutive days of action or avoidance is difficult, even for the most disciplined among us.) “There’s no magic one-size-fits-all solution for how you want to set up a habit, whether you do it in the morning, afternoon, or night,” Rubin says in a mindbodygreen podcast episode. “People are going to differ on when they feel most productive, creative, and energetic.” For example: Let’s say your goal is to improve your overall nutrition and longevity efforts. To achieve this goal, you decide to form the daily habit of taking a multivitamin (if this is also your goal, you can find our roundup of the best multivitamins here). You might think taking your multi first thing in the morning is ideal since many others take their supplements at that time. However, if you have a sensitive stomach or struggle with digestive concerns, you may not be able to tolerate a high-potency multi (or any other supplement) on an empty stomach. If this is the case, you could consider pairing the habit of supplementation with a meal (bonus: Many vitamins included in a multi are fat-soluble, which means they’re best absorbed and activated when taken with food, so this timing is especially beneficial). “[Habits] put a behavior on autopilot,” Rubin explains. “Research suggests that about 40% of what we do every day1 is governed by habits, so if you have habits that work for you, it’s going to be a lot easier to be happier, healthier, more productive, and more creative.” If you’ve taken your multi every day for a week, bask in a moment of gratitude and excitement. If you’ve forgotten to take it for a few days in a row but remembered today, that’s worth celebrating as well! Rather than beating yourself up if you miss a day, Rubin suggests reframing your mindset by saying, “There’s nothing wrong with me. I’ve learned something about myself. This tool doesn’t work. Now, I’m going to try a different tool.” Science suggests it takes nine weeks (not 21 days, as previously thought) to form a habit. That’s a lot of time to put yourself down or build yourself up—is your self-talk compassionate and supportive or cruel and discouraging?
